Sunday, July 24, 2016

Gratitude*Sunday


This Week I am Grateful For:


* Thunderstorms and the rainbows that follow them.
* Listening to my husband read our son bed time stories and sing him to sleep.
* A fresh haircut.
* Exercise.
* Taking care of myself again. Because that means this fucking fog is finally lifting again and maybe I'll be laughing more easily again soon.
* Music and Harry Potter re-reads.
* Huge hug tackles after Orion yells "hug!" and charges me down to jump up and wrap his arms around my neck.
* Lone long walks in the heat. This just ties back in to "taking care of myself".
* Being OK with what I do and don't get done. Knowing it's enough.
* Hard stable ground and strong winds whipping around.

Wednesday, June 29, 2016

Review: The Last Woman Standing by Thelma Adams


The Last Woman Standing by Thelma Adams


From the Publisher:
The daughter of Jewish immigrants, Josephine shames her tight-knit family (her over-bearing mother begins to sit-shiva the minute Josephine walks out the door) when the 19-year-old follows the smooth-talking and attractive lawman, Johnny Behan, from San Francisco, California to Tombstone, Arizona. Hanging on the slim promise of a wedding, the naïve young woman eventually discovers the older man’s untrustworthy side. She also learns that divided loyalties and corruption plague the silver boom town—with her fiancé at the conflict’s heart. And she can’t pretend she hasn’t noticed the courageous straight-shooter Wyatt Earp who becomes Behan’s sworn enemy.
When Behan betrays Josephine, she leaves him—and immediately faces the harsh realities of being a woman on her own in the Wild West, a world where a lady’s every action depends on a man’s approval. Adams’s storytelling from a female perspective, and her rich and descriptive style, allow the reader to feel Josephine’s desperation as she realizes the only available options she has are prostitution or returning home. That is—until Wyatt Earp declares his love for her. As their romance blossoms and their bond deepens, Behan’s jealousy ignites a rivalry destined for the history books.


My Thoughts:
A well imagined romance set in the Wild West.

Admittedly, I wasn't terribly fond of Josie/Sadie through much of the book. Her vanity rubbed me the wrong way, and I had expected her to be a bit more plucky and self assured than a hot mess of emotions around attractive fellows.

That said, her interactions with the others in the story kept me reading, and I read it quite quickly. I'm a sucker for a decent western (completely my dad's fault) and the one thing Josie and have in common is enjoying some scenery - and the descriptions delivered! The other characters; Doc Holliday, his gal Kate, Mollie the photographer, Johnny the Scoundrel, Madam Moustache - were all entertaining and enjoyable in their own ways. Yes, even the cad. You need a good cad in these sorts of stories, and Behan was top notch.

Overall, an enjoyable read.

Find Thelma Adams and The Last Woman Standing around the web:

Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Last-Woman-Standing-Novel/dp/1503935183?ie=UTF8&*Version*=1&*entries*=0
Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/28090852-the-last-woman-standing
Author's Website: http://thelmadams.com/wordpress/


Thank you to Lisa at TLC Book Tours and the Publisher for the review copy of this novel. To see what other readers on the tour thought, click the image above.

Tuesday, June 28, 2016

On the Farm

During our renovations, we took time to stop for play and rest. One of the things we did was take Orion to visit a local farm.

Growing up in farm country, farms were old hat to me. Half of my friends grew up on farms! But living in the suburbs, Orion's missing out on really seeing the animals he sees in his books. Luckily, there's a small farm about 3 minutes from my best friend's house that had an open house and tour last weekend.




So we loaded our little dude in to the car and drove across town to get our fill of farm fresh cheese and yogurt (from sheep and goats! No cows here.), touch all the wool blankets and skeins and roving that I wanted to throw all of our money at, and of course, visit with the animals.




There were some little lambs that we were able to get up close with and Orion was maybe a bit too excited about them; especially their tails! So I had to hold him back to keep him from hug/tackling them or trying to drag one home by its tail. Poor things!




We *do* have horses next door to us, so while he was incredibly interested, and even a little freaked out by, the sheep and goats he was completely comfortable around the horses. I laughed at how he gave this friendly old guy the brush off - "quit sniffing my hair, horse!"



We'll definitely go back when they have their next open weekend!

Monday, June 20, 2016

Review: Follow the River Home by Corran Harrington


Follow the River Home by Corran Harrington


From the Publisher:
Daniel Arroyo has suffered a lifetime of guilt over the sudden death of his infant sister, who died when he was eight years old. He now lives his middle years between that guilt and worsening episodes of PTSD from a Vietnam he left thirty years ago. When a violent encounter on a dusty highway forces Daniel to face what haunts him, he finds himself pulled back to the neighborhood of his youth, where old houses hold tired secrets. What really happened on that steamy August afternoon? The answer comes spilling from the old neighborhood, and Daniel begins to find his way home. Corran Harrington takes the reader along the Rio Grande, from its headwaters to the sea.

My Thoughts:
Spectacularly written, but quite a bit different than what I had anticipated.

I had expected one fluid story, but Follow the River Home is actually two parts - Daniel's story to uncover the truth about his past which is then followed by supporting short stories that flow back in to the main story - just like the tributaries of a river. I actually found that I enjoyed the short stories more than the main story; they were contained worlds that were richly explored and wrapped up neatly in just a few pages. Plus, I had been dead curious about some of the characters Daniel briefly encountered and was pleased that, for once, an author filled in their stories!

All of the stories were crafted with care, and it's definitely worth a read.

Find Corran Harrington and Follow the River Home around the web:

Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0985520027/ref=cm_sw_su_dp
Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/28194005-follow-the-river-home
Author's Website: http://www.corranharrington.com/


Thank you to Lisa at TLC Book Tours and the publisher for the review copy of this book. To see what others on the tour thought, please click the image above.

Friday, June 17, 2016

Veggies, Renovations, and Summer Scenes






There's been quite a lot going on here lately, and due to the relentless heat, I'm grateful that a lot of it has been inside or in the shade!

Orion's been super in to helping Joe and I out with every thing we do lately; when I'm in the kitchen he pulls out the folding step stool and drags it over for me to unfold so he can "help" with cooking dinner. Since he still tries to touch the stove or grab knives, he helps by standing at the edge of the counter holding the spice jars. And, if something is cool, putting ingredients in the bowl/pot and adding those spices.

Over the weekend, he helped me make two jars of fridge pickles. Then helped Joe mow the lawn while I started my very first batch of sauerkraut.

We've been prepping the house this past week for our first major renovation in the 5 years since we moved in. We're tearing up the carpet in the living room and 2 hallways and replacing them with high quality laminate, and changing the wall colors. Since we'll be replacing the floors, we need to move all of the furniture out, which means we needed to take all of the stuff off of it. We also had to take all of the pictures and paintings off the walls, which makes our home feel awfully naked.

Our poor cat, Molly, has been freaking out as things disappear, while Luna and Orion are unphased. Molly's moved enough times to know that usually when stuff gets packed away, it means he's going to get stuck in a crate in the car at some point. Poor thing.

When it's been cooler in the evenings, we've been pushing Orion on his swing and hanging in our hammocks watching the fireflies and bats and taking a reprieve from all of the work that's been or is waiting to be done.

I'm learning how to hold on to the to-do list a little less tightly and to chillax every now and then. Even in the midst of a major project.

Monday, June 13, 2016

Review: Leaving Blythe River by Catherine Ryan Hyde


Leaving Blythe River by Catherine Ryan Hyde


From the Publisher:
Seventeen-year-old Ethan Underwood is totally unprepared to search for his father in the Blythe River National Wilderness. Not only is he small, scrawny, and skittish but he’s barely speaking to the man after a traumatic betrayal. Yet when his father vanishes from their remote cabin and rangers abandon the rescue mission, suddenly it’s up to Ethan to keep looking. Angry or not, he’s his father’s only hope.

With the help of three locals—a fearless seventy-year-old widow, a pack guide, and a former actor with limited outdoor skills—he heads into the wild. The days that follow transform Ethan’s world. Hail, punishing sun, swollen rapids, and exhausting pain leave him wondering if he’s been fooled yet again: Is his father out here at all? As the situation grows increasingly dire, Ethan realizes this quest has become about more than finding his dad.

From the bestselling author of Pay It Forward comes a story of nature revealing human nature—the trickiest terrain. Navigating an unforgiving landscape, Ethan searches himself for the ability to forgive his father—if he finds him alive.


My Thoughts:

I really, really enjoyed this book. Like, really enjoyed it. The writing was superb; I could have been eating burritos, fording rivers, and facing down grizzly bears with the characters. And the characters themselves were all well imagined, believable, and I'd have gladly spent time with any of them - except for Noah.

While coming of age stories in the wilderness are a pretty common genre, I loved this story. It wasn't your typical "kid goes on a solo adventure in to the wild and after surviving deadly things, is changed". Leaving Blythe River was a story of people helping each other out, and of the strength it takes to put aside strong feelings and do the right thing. The main character, Ethan, does change in the woods - but not because he almost starved or anything so dramatic as that - but for the perfectly everyday reason that he stepped out of his comfort zone repeatedly.

He found his voice and strength through many small acts of personal bravery, which is easy for most people to relate to.

This was one of those hard to put down stories, where I found myself thinking about it while I was washing dishes, or walking the dog. I finished the book almost two weeks ago now, and it's still floating around in my mind.

Find Catherine Ryan Hyde and Leaving Blythe River around the web:

Amazon.com: http://www.amazon.com/Leaving-Blythe-River-Catherine-Ryan/dp/1503934462/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr=

Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/27858043-leaving-blythe-river?from_search=true&search_version=service

Author's website: http://www.catherineryanhyde.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/crhyde



Thank you to Lisa at TLC Book Tours and the publisher for the review copy of this novel. To see what other TLC Readers had to say, click the image above!


Gratitude*Sunday A Day Late

Each Sunday I stop and count my blessings.

Taking time to honor the things I've been grateful for throughout the week. A quiet, weekly practice of appreciation and positivity. A time to breath and reflect. A small step towards a more simplistic and appreciative outlook. Feel free to join in. <3




This Week I am Grateful For:


* A patient, loving, unwavering husband who is my rock through the even the stormiest periods of my anxiety and depression.
* Getting some time with a beautiful friend who I don't see as often as I'd like, who is in a huge transitional period. The fact that she takes the time to talk and care about other people's shit during her own upheaval is wondrous.
* Sipping sangria poolside. Seeing Orion actually enjoy the pool for a little bit.
* Our neighbors treating us to a delicious lunch.
* Speaking what I want aloud, even though it sounds so cheesy. Letting go of judgement of that cheese.
* New hammock straps that make it a cinch to put up - hammock hangs after bedtime with my love. Watching fireflies dance around us, bats fluttering overhead, and a huge owl swooping out of our pine trees. I guess I know why I haven't seen as many hawks around the yard this year.
* Going through and paring down my jewelry & fabric collections. Letting go of things is far more freeing than I'd anticipated.
* Orion picking a flower for his friend, then dumping dirt in her hair 5 minutes later, then a few minutes after that ripping out an entire plant to give to her which Joe quickly replanted. It's the thought that counts, right? :)
* Having a very light, happy, uplifting weekend. Seriously, I'd call it perfect.